The Platonic Possibility

So as everyone, i have one of those amazing people who i love dearly who is just the friend, but the one who could always quite easily slip into the position of something more. My friend has been a past, but i don't intend on having him as a future. He is the kind of friend who will go to that auntie's brother-in-laws wedding with you, comfort you when you are a mess, give advice on the other potential partners in your life, never think anyone is ever good enough. They are the one you always have fun with, the one who will never let you down.

These people are amazing. Don't let them out of your life, ever! And if you make the mistake of doing this i suggest you beg at their feet everyday for them to rekindle themselves into your adventurous life that seems dull without them, and if you don't beg for them back and stay stubborn you are a waste of space and truly a stupid human being.

I wouldn't change my friend for anyone in the entire world! This friend has seen every side of me, this including the disgustingly horrible early morning me, the trashy can barely stand me, the housewife dinner cooking laundry cleaning me, and the plain normal exciting me. And these people love you throughout them all. These people are true treasures to the world.

The pain about these people although is.. New lovers get extremely jealous when you hang out with your platonic friend. And It Is one of the most annoying things as all you really want is to freely be uncomplicated with both your new lover and your old platonic friend.    ... There is also the jealousy of the platonic friend towards the new lover, the doubt they have towards how long this new love will be around and these questions although ones we all need to face aren't really what we want to be thinking about when we have a new partner on the scene.

These friends are the ones you have to literaly convince both your friends and families that nothing is going on.. Well at the times where nothing is going on.

The worst part of having the platonic possibility friend is the other partners. I on many occasions have had to define and swear on my life my platonic possibility is and is only a friend, this is not so hard to do. As on the other hand, convincing your platonic possibilities partner that you are not in-love with your friend and that there is nothing happening is the hardest thing to do. Especially as you are never believed by your platonic possibilities partner. But to think about it would you really believe that flirtatious friend who is all over your partner when they say that there is nothing going on and that nothing will go on..?!

So as my final message to all those platonic possibilities, we all love you. You are amazing, we would die without you in our lives, without you i don't know how i could have survived all those stupid Ex's, stupid friends and plain old stupid drama, so for that i thank you.

Lots Of Love,
      Pretty Little Bitch Girl
                        xx