I love you, dont I?

Do you actually love the ones who love you, or do you love them because they love you?
Do you love the ones you're ment to because they are amazing or because you have to put up with them?
Do you love beacuse you want to be loved or because you love them regardless if they love you as you can see their beauty, inner and out and perceive them as 'perfet'?
Do we love because we are ment to or because we genuinely love?

Can you love someone without actually liking their 'person'? I know people who are like this and believe that you can. But i think they are wrong. I think if you love someone but don't like them, the truth is you just don't want to be alone so you settle with whatever is easiest and has the least effort and possibilities of heartache, and in your own twisted way make yourself believe it is love not just desperation.

Is love real? Or is it what we have made it with our guidlines of what love actually is? Possibly we have told ourselves what love is and should be like rather than allow it to be whatever it is, come in different forms, shapes and sizes rather than be a constricted box that everything outside simply is not good enough to be classified as 'love' heedless of if it is or isn't.
Has our generalisation in a discription of how love is ruined it for some people, some circumstances?

Lots Of Love,
Pretty Little Bitch Girl
xx

The silly questioning thoughts.

So recently my head has been full of silly questions that i cannot seem to answer.. so, i shall share them :)

How do you know if you are happy? But how do you know if you are not? I mean people smile and seem happy even when they're not, right. And people look upset and miserable when also perhaps they are just distracted by something, not necessarily unhappiness.

Do statistics of other peoples efforts really mean anything? I have a friend who recently has had a lot to say about the enormous possibility of relationship failure. Apparently the stats are 98% of young relationships fail and ONLY 2% are the happily ever after fairytales we all want. Does this mean because the majority of people and relationships fall into the 98% i will? Or could i be the exception despite the odds?

When somebody says forever do they mean 'for ever' or 'for ever at the moment'. How can you possibly tell. How does someone know what they will want in 2 months from now, 5 years from now, let alone in atleast 25 years from now. Although possibly because i am extremely hipocritical at this very moment about this topic i believe i know what i want.. But still, how on earth does anybody else!? I mean forever is a long time, how can someone possibly know what they will want. So really does forever mean 'for ever' or 'for ever at the moment'? This doesn't even have to do with anything in particular it could be...
         - pink will be my favourite colour forever.
         - i will love you forever
         - i want to be with you forever
         - i want pizza once a month forever
See nothing serious or something serious, how does anyone really know? I'm sure i don't really know i only think i do (though I'm pretty incredibly certain!!). But how do you actually know? And because no one really does know what they will want for ever, can you make promises or plans if at one stage your 'for ever' could go back to have ment 'for ever from that moment earlier in time'.

Do people ever actually get their dream house, job, husband or wife, children, financial status.. does it ever actually happen? Or do your standards, dreams and desires change to accomodate what you can actually get? How long do you have to wait to get what you really want?..Because the time waiting feels like a lifetime. Regardless of what you are waiting for at the current moment.

Though enough rambling.. As i am an expert and could go on for days.

Lots Of Love,
Pretty Little Bitch Girl
xx