Wednesday 25 May 2011

Expressing emotions

The truth is: telling someone how you feel and allowing yourself to be vulnerable to them is a big step. It's something that can either go in an extreme positive direction or can diminish your self esteem and your 'person' by going in a negative path.

But isn't it worth the risk? I mean, what is the point of holding back in fear of regection, fear of allowing yourself to be happy, fear of giving someone such an amount of power, fear of sounding like a fool, fear of smothering someone, fear of anything. What is the point to withhold your emotion which is part of who you are just for a reason such as fear? Especially as your withholding it from someone you want to share everything with.

I risk it. If it's true and how i feel i find there's no need to be scared. Because the person you feel this way about is worth it and is worth being told someone cares, as if they weren't worth it, you wouldn't feel the way you do about them anyway. So it justifies itself.

Personally i would much rather take the risk and hope not to fall than leave it there and say nothing but always wonder what would or could have happened if you'd taken the risk rather than been to scared to fall.

But thats just my opinion. I could be wrong, though i doubt i am.

So my advice that comes along is.. Let the people you care about know you appreciate them and care too, before someone else comes along who shows them they are valued.

Lots Of Love,
      Pretty Little Bitch Girl
                        xx