Saturday 16 April 2011

Relationship Boundaries.

There is this saying that has been around for oh so long and it goes along the lines of 'No boundaries, no relationship'. And i had always seen how this statement had made sense... until i began to think about it and look upon my own life.

The boundaries of a relationship being the bringing of all your shit. First it starts by in most scenarios the lady friend of the couple bringing overnight clothes to their partners place to keep in a draw, a spare toothbrush, and silly little pieces of crap like that. And this in most cases scares the hell out of the charming male...who probably has commitment issues - so be careful - or you're just too clingy too fast... So this bringing of shit becomes a problem as it sends your partner thoughts to run for the hills as of course, leaving a spare toothbrush at your partners means you clearly are dropping the hints for marriage (You guys are all retarded by the way.. as i'm sure a toothbrush isn't the same as a diamond ring catalogue left on the bench, it is most likey so they can have fresh breath.. but who know's who is right - it shall remain a mystery).

So as i was saying.. Maybe it isn't so freaky when the other half of your relationship leaves their toothbrush at your place, puts clothes on the shelves.. maybe it's possibly a good thing, and maybe the idea of having these boundaries is stupid as i didn't/don't have these boundaries and nothing seems to be showing the statement as true, for this scenario is 'no boundaries, yes relationship'

Maybe it's just me or maybe you should look at the pro's of having that extra toothbrush and a little less room for yourself in the closet, as i quite fancy it with the little less room, and you probably will too.

Lots Of Love,
      Pretty Little Bitch Girl
                        xx

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